So here I am – one last time – and I can hardly believe that this year’s Locktober is already coming to an end. Many of us used this month to explore new experiences, to push personal boundaries, and to challenge ourselves in various ways. For some, it was their very
Tonight, I had my neighbor Michael over for dinner. Nothing unusual, you might think – but Michael and I share a small secret, or rather, a shared passion: chastity, and a mutual love of submission and obedience. We first met online about a year and a half ago, and since then,
Sometimes things turn out differently than we expect – or plan. That’s been the case for me lately. I had looked forward to spending these final days of Locktober fully immersed in the experience, taking time to reflect and enjoy the rhythm of being locked. But life, as it often
Over the past few days, I’ve noticed my sexual desire steadily increasing – to the point that it’s been clouding my thoughts and testing my patience. Especially last night, it hit me with an intensity I hadn’t felt in a long time – deep, powerful, and almost painfully consuming.
Over the past few days, the word authenticity has appeared in several different contexts for me. Personally, I love exploring it – because the question of what it means to be and stay authentic plays not only a major role in my professional life, but has also become increasingly important in
Today was one of those dreary, grey autumn days. Outside, it’s been raining nonstop – the sky heavy, dull, and unmoving – and I’ve felt tired and unmotivated all day. I kept doubting whether I’d be able to come up with anything meaningful – let alone interesting – enough to reflect
Saturday has become a ritual day for me – the one morning each week I spend meditating for an hour with my friend and teacher, Matt, better known as The Bearded Naked Yogi. We always begin our session with a brief reflection on the week, and end by sharing what lies
Over the past months and reflections, I’ve often written about how, as a self-locked boi, I’ve gradually built a rhythm and routine that allow me to live chastity not just as a temporary kink, but as a continuous lifestyle. None of this would work without a certain structure
Today was a special day for me. This morning, I made my way to Berlin, where a short film by my friend Peter Cage was screened as part of this year’s PornFilmFestival. Some of you might already know Peter – not only as a frequent podcast guest on all things
The question I get asked most often – as someone living a self-locked chastity lifestyle without a Keyholder, Sir, Dom, Master, or Mistress – is this: “Don’t you ever feel tempted to unlock and take care of yourself when the arousal becomes too much?” A fair question, and one worth exploring
When I decided more than a year and a half ago to stop viewing chastity as just a kink and instead make it something that would become an integral part of my everyday life, it marked a major turning point. Looking back now, I realize that this choice required me
Have you ever heard the word “denousal” before? If not, don’t worry – I’m not surprised. It’s actually a completely new term coined by my dear friend Ryan, to whom I’d like to dedicate today’s reflection. Ryan and I met a few weeks ago through social