Looking Back while Moving Forward

When I first had the idea of starting my own blog about chastity, I always envisioned publishing my first post around February 14. Not because of Valentine’s Day, as many might assume, but because this day marks exactly one year since I made the decision in 2024 to live permanently locked.

In the months leading up to that decision, my fascination with chastity grew into a deep dedication. I had been intrigued by it for many years, but looking back, I still can’t pinpoint exactly what first sparked my curiosity. What I do know is that I have always identified as a bottom - perhaps even a submissive - who finds fulfillment in serving and pleasing men I perceive as superior to me.

Being a “good boy” and following orders feels deeply ingrained in my DNA. Maybe it’s that specific aspect of my personality that initially drew me to chastity.

Wearing a chastity device - even as a self-locked sub like me - feels like adhering to a certain dress code or putting on my submissive uniform. It sends a clear message to the world and, more importantly, makes me feel whole in a way I never did before.

But that wasn’t always the case. When I first started this journey, I felt incredibly alone. I had no one to talk to about my desire to lock myself and stay chaste for as long as possible. I didn’t know anyone else who shared this fetish - or, as I now consider it, this lifestyle.

Discovering Community

That changed when I delved deeper into the topic. I discovered podcasts entirely dedicated to chastity, and as I built up the courage to post my first pictures of myself locked - back then in a poorly fitting, cheap knock-off Cobra cage - I began connecting with more and more people. Over time, I found myself becoming part of a growing community of caged subs, Masters, Doms, Tops, and Keyholders.

For a while, everything was great. I loved posting daily cage checks on my X account, interacting with fellow subs, and sharing my experiences, thoughts, and feelings.

However, after the 2024 U.S. election, I started feeling increasingly uneasy about posting on this platform. I struggled with people stealing my content and using it for their own political agendas. Over time, my motivation to share my locked life faded. I felt like I wasn’t reaching the people I initially intended to, and on top of that, I felt like I was betraying my own values by financially supporting a CEO whose leadership clashed with my personal beliefs.

The Birth of The Locked Perspective

That’s when I seriously started considering my own blog - a safe space where I could freely express my thoughts as I navigated each locked day. I envisioned a place where I could review new cages, offer tips for others interested in becoming (permanently) locked, and ultimately promote what I like to call the Beauty of Chastity. And so, The Locked Perspective was born.

I won’t be leaving social media entirely. Instead, I see it as a complementary way to share my locked journey. While I plan to make BlueSky my new home for short daily updates - like cage checks and snapshots - The Locked Perspective will provide a deeper, more detailed exploration of the chastity lifestyle I’ve embraced. Whether you’re just curious, looking for motivation, or considering chastity in a new way, I hope this blog offers something valuable to you.

Whatever brought you here, I appreciate you taking the time to read my first post. I’d love to see you back here again in the future!

Sincerely,
Flo.w Freely